In a world full of unlimited choice, adore those who go hard for you. Commitment is a very rare thing. It's one of the rarest things of all.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So instead of actually making a decision about things, we live in that world of choice and never end up really making a decision.
And all of this choice becomes paralyzing in its own way. All of these options create chaos in our mind.
This makes it so rare to come across someone who is going hard for their dreams or for other people.
They don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to do the wrong thing and step on anyones toes. They don't want to make waves and be impolite.
So they play it safe...and by doing that...
They of course avoid getting really hurt...
But also prevent themselves from being everything and anything they could have been if they really had actually dove headfirst into what they always dreamed of. They stop themselves from looking bad, but they never get to see the light of what they could have been.
And for many, by the time they realize that they had been living in this story, it is far too late.
So you have to truly go for it. You have to put forward your best effort and really take a dive into your dream.
Because if you don't, you will spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that you never actually took the chances you were meant to take.
This is the only way you can make dreams happen. This is the only way you can truly live your life instead of just survive through it.
And if you actually learn that lesson, it will take you farther than you could imagine.
We are so afraid to commit because we don't want to put ourselves on the line and screw it up. We don't want to make ourselves look stupid and do the wrong thing.
So instead of actually making a decision about things, we live in that world of choice and never end up really making a decision.
And all of this choice becomes paralyzing in its own way. All of these options create chaos in our mind.
This makes it so rare to come across someone who is going hard for their dreams or for other people.
They don't want to get hurt.
They don't want to do the wrong thing and step on anyones toes. They don't want to make waves and be impolite.
So they play it safe...and by doing that...
They of course avoid getting really hurt...
But also prevent themselves from being everything and anything they could have been if they really had actually dove headfirst into what they always dreamed of. They stop themselves from looking bad, but they never get to see the light of what they could have been.
And for many, by the time they realize that they had been living in this story, it is far too late.
So you have to truly go for it. You have to put forward your best effort and really take a dive into your dream.
Because if you don't, you will spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that you never actually took the chances you were meant to take.
This is the only way you can make dreams happen. This is the only way you can truly live your life instead of just survive through it.
And if you actually learn that lesson, it will take you farther than you could imagine.
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