How To Deal With Therapy Abuse

By Lucia Weeks


Violation by a therapist is the worst form of abused trust. It is a huge let down considering that you expect them to guide you into safety and good health. You should be concerned when you sense manipulation, control or exploitation. Therapy abuse is any act that does not serve your best interest. Concern should be raised if dependency goes beyond professional level.

The emergence of any form of dual relationships in the process treatment signals the possibility of violation. Most people are vulnerable because they trust in the guidance and opinion of the therapist. Adults fall victims as much as children do. Quick action is required to ensure that violation does not cause the situation to get out of hand. Such an occurrence affects the confidence of victims with some cases becoming irredeemable.

Violation may come from either a male or female therapist. Sexual exploitation is the most common form of abuse. Violation has caused many victims to be admitted into hospitals because of depression. Others have attempted suicide while a significant percentage has succeeded. This points at the need to take quick and decisive action.

To avoid or limit abuse, professionals suggest that you follow your gut feelings. This means that, if it feels wrong, it probably is wrong and requires review. Seek the assistance of another therapist or confide in a person you trust. This helps you clarify if the procedure is right and whether it will deliver desired results.

There are behaviors that will signal unprofessional conduct. A therapist who discusses other clients, his personal life or uncomfortable topics is likely to be abusive. If you feel hurt or violated during the initial sessions, it is time to quit. This will ensure that the situation does not get out of hand.

A session with your therapist should not result in a feeling of shame, intimidation, degradation or humiliation. It is supposed to lead to healing and relief. Therapists who make suggestive and erotic comments should be avoided. Acts like winking, kissing, hugging or sexual intercourse are abusive.

There should be no pressure to make hasty decision or join activities that you regard as uncomfortable. Any meeting, email, call or text message that does not stick to professional ethics, working hours and office space is the beginning of trouble. Personal compliments like you are beautiful and sexy are suspect since therapists should concentrate on professional achievement and the healing process.

Most victims are trapped because they feel vulnerable while the therapist appears as your source of comfort. It is the professional services that are important and not necessarily the therapist. There are standard procedures in each case and they must be respected. Failure to attend any sessions should not leave you feeling guilty or anxious. The attachment to therapy should be strictly professional.

Parents, spouses and close friends remain your solace in case you are violated. Support organizations have setup resourceful websites to assist victims and offer directions. A change of therapist is recommended at the earliest opportunity. There are legal channels to seek redress including contacting your attorney, reporting to the professional body that regulates therapists and making a statement to the police. There is no violation that is too insignificant to be ignored.




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